Do women control men through ? Is the best way to attract women to be unattainable?

First of all, male is not a race or a species, it's a /gender. Second, yes, there are some women who control men through but the majority of women I know do not do that. Third, not all guys will do anything to get laid. Some have a little more respect for themselves and women. Fourth, there are women who are too emotionally immature, greedy, and self indulgent to be in relationships but no, it's not most women. There are men who are too emotionally immature, greedy, and self indulgent to be in relationships as well. And, finally, fifth, the best way for you to attract decent women who are mature enough to be in meaningful relationships is going to be a lot more maturity on your part. You might want to work on that.